Growth Isn't About Doing Everything

Growth Isn't About Doing Everything

Arpit Bhayani<br>engineering, databases, and systems. always building.

As software engineers, most of us have an itch to improve - to become better at coding, architecture, or leadership. But do you see the problem? It’s all fuzzy and vague.

I follow a simple flow of questions that helps me stay focused, improve consistently, and make an incremental impact at the workplace. I’m never running around like a headless chicken. Here are the questions I ask myself, and answer honestly, like really true to its core

Why do I want to improve today? What’s the need?

What niche do I want to improve in?

What are the easiest 20% of things that cover 80% of the results?

How will I go about doing this in the span of X weeks?

How will I measure that I am improving at this?

Each question above is critical because it gives you clarity. By the way, if you don’t have a strong reason, you’ll never sustain the effort. Honestly, in that case, it’s better to just relax and watch that movie you’ve been meaning to see.

Also, many engineers never grow out of the school mindset. They make daily timetables, literally planning every single hour of the day. Don’t do that. Remember: what you need is a broad plan, not granular control; a roadmap, not a prison schedule.

Here are a few things that I have been doing consistently…

I use AI as a planner and tweak it to my needs

I study people I admire, and I pick one or two traits (not ten)

I pair every small milestone with an action and an artifact - in my case, a blog, a video, or a social media post.

Aspirations are essential as they give you direction, but what’s super important is to pick the right niche and execute with focus.

At the end of the day, growth isn’t about doing everything, it’s about doing the right things with consistency. Don’t chase ten different skills at once, and don’t over-engineer your plan.

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