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Breadcrumbs

Simon Sarris<br>Oct 19, 2024

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One belief I have is that if you wish to be virtuous you will learn to eat cereal virtuously.<br>The novice of virtue is tempted by dreams of heroic acts, just as the novice sculptor daydreams of palatial monuments, or other grand work. But the master sculptor is extraordinary not because he has been commissioned for monumental bronzes (which may never happen), but because he labors over every small detail.<br>Virtue should not be thought of as a handmaid of heroism, but instead as an undercurrent of everything one does. Day-to-day matters are more important than theoretical great acts, and failure to give them proper attention is its own cowardice. Let every small thing you do be as careful and good as it can. The virtuous person should live so well that they leave breadcrumbs of virtue everywhere.<br>ii

Life at times is filled by a series of casual hobbies, but this does not mean life itself is casual. One could always be looking for ways to take it more seriously.<br>iii

A while ago I wrote some advice for new software developers. It’s worth thinking about how it applies generally. The advice was:<br>1. Write what you're learning.<br>2. Have at least a tiny website that shows something neat.<br>3. Do things publicly. Have Twitter, Github, etc. Comment publicly, ideally with your real name. This forces you to be nicer, too.<br>4. Help other people.

These are all breadcrumbs. If you are going to work and learn (and live), it is beneficial to think about how you can leave a trail.

breadcrumbs from 20,000 years ago, Lascaux caves, France<br>One aspect of life, somewhat neglected in the digital age, is the desire to see and be seen. We should not only desire that others find us, we need them to.<br>We need jobs, relationships, friends, and all other kinds of connections. Though it sometimes feels that these connections are assigned at random, it is never true, they are always the product of someone’s efforts. Trivially, hiding in a basement yields zero connections. Even going to the store is more fruitful. As I mentioned a few years ago, the cost of going to a cafe every single day is cheap, if it means you find your wife. Or put another way, the act of only drinking coffee at home can save some money, but can come at a non-financial cost.<br>You want others to find you. And when they do, you want to be able to give them something.<br>In the digital age, writing and photography have made this a little easier. Often a person doesn’t have to discover you at the time of creation, but at some point in the future. This is part of why I write — the interesting people I have found I did not first meet in person, but found their breadcrumbs online: blogs, projects, videos, stories, photo reels, some of them produced years before I found them. People understand the idea of a famous author’s or director’s body of work, but there is no reason this concept can’t apply to everyone in some small way. I think it does.<br>iiii

If you spend a lot of time online or making things, it’s good to find a way to leave these breadcrumbs. The trail of your digital self should be interesting. If you use social media, you should ensure it makes your goals, desires, projects — if not clear, at least worth stumbling upon.<br>“Write what you’re learning” is good advice for software developers and probably a lot of other people. If you have any hobbies where you’re learning something new, it might be good to show what you’re learning too. Think about how you can see and be seen.<br>Why does this matter? "Working in public" gets a lot of people jobs, and living in public gets people into relationships of all kinds. Some people, who may greatly desire more relationships, end up using social media to do nothing but whine and repeat tired political stuff. The creation of breadcrumbs is a escape route from that end.

Gretel pushes the evil witch into the fire, saving herself and her brother. This is what you should do to your phone if you are tempted to complain too much on social media.<br>The use of social media to share — what you are learning, what you are doing, what you have done — is a simple way to see and be seen. But it is also a way to use it virtuously. Let nothing you do be done carelessly.<br>iiiii

Lately among silicon-valley types there’s been interest in the idea of a “date-me doc”, a small document or webpage that is part biography and part solicitation.<br>I think this itself isn’t a bad thing, though it might suggest failures upstream. First, it tempts self-assessment, which often ends badly.

A restaurant’s date-me doc<br>And conceptually, such a doc feels like it is casting a wider net, but I think it presents a very thin slice of a person in a span of time too short to digest the information meaningfully. It makes sense that people are vaguely off-put by that, it is an unusual way to present...